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Data-Driven Matchmaking


Let’s be honest: gay men aren’t one-size-fits-all. We come from different backgrounds, lifestyles, and places—city dwellers, country gentlemen, and everyone in between—each on our own path.

If you’re seeking a long-term relationship, the search can feel harder because the LTR-seeking gay man is truly a minority within a minority. And certain factors can shrink the pool fast. For example, identifying exclusively as a bottom can eliminate a large portion of compatible LTR prospects locally. Add a smaller city—like Fayetteville, Arkansas—and the dating sample size becomes even tighter.

The answer isn’t changing who you are or uprooting your life. It’s optimizing your strategy: expanding your reach, widening your radius, increasing quality conversations, using the right networks and tools, and getting clear on what’s non-negotiable versus flexible.

At Gayquation, we combine data, intuition, and personalized matchmaking to help you navigate these realities—so your search for love becomes smarter, more efficient, and more fulfilling.

With Boost, we identify your biggest obstacles and tailor a plan to help marginalize them. See our latest client trends (updated 1/15/26):






Our Optimization Strategy





Know Your Dating Market Value

Discover where you stand in today's dating landscape with analysis based on nearly two decades of real-world data. Our algorithm evolves with the times—accounting for shifting attitudes on interracial dating, long-distance relationships, and other modern realities of gay dating. Receive your complete analysis and scores with specific optimization strategies, each showing percentage improvements you can achieve by implementing recommended changes.

With Optima, your dedicated market report, we identify the unique challenges you’ve faced—or may face—in your journey to finding love. From day one, we counter these obstacles with a personalized roadmap tailored to your needs and goals.








Included in every membership....


Guarantee      Protect      Boost      Optima
   Insta-Date       Spark       Passport  


& more...

Insta-Match       Mystery Match       Speed Dating


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