Did you know you could spend up to two years of your life on "virtual foreplay"—emails, texts, and dating app messages—before even setting a date? Why not skip the small talk and find out if there's real potential with the eligible men your matchmaker selects for you?
With your approval, your matchmaker will arrange Insta-Dates every month—yes, real dates! Perfect for adventurous souls who are ready to trust the process, your matchmaker will handle everything: the time, location, and all the details. These dates will take place within 10 miles of your area, in neutral, public venues like coffee shops or restaurants. All you have to do is show up and see where the conversation takes you.
It’s simple, exciting, and a great way to connect face-to-face. After all, you’re looking for a long-term companion. Life is too short to wait—why not start now?
How Does Insta-Date Work?
Insta-Date offers an effortless way for Gayquation members to meet in person with their matches. Here’s how it works:
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Match Qualification
Your lead matchmaker identifies and qualifies a match who is interested in meeting you.
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Match Information Shared
Your match's details, including photos, are emailed to you for review.
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Choose Your Introduction
Decide how you’d like to connect:
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Email/Phone/Virtual: Suitable for any distance.
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In-Person Insta-Date: Available if both parties live within 10 miles (or 25 miles if both agree to extend the range).
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In-Person Insta-Date Eligibility
- Both parties must reside within the agreed radius.
- If the distance exceeds 10 miles, virtual introductions (email, phone, or video chat) are available.
5.
Date Planning & Approval
- Your matchmaker arranges the in-person Insta-Date based on mutual agreement on the date, time, and location.
- You may suggest a meeting spot, but it must be approved by your match.
- All introductions take place within 7 days.
6.
Confirmation Call
Matchmakers confirm the date details with both parties 24 hours before the scheduled meeting. Each participant must respond to the confirmation within 12 hours, or the date may be rescheduled, canceled, or converted to a virtual introduction.
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The Big Day
Meet your match in a safe, public location, and enjoy your Insta-Date!
Additional Notes:
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Participation is Optional: Members can choose not to participate in Insta-Dates and opt for email/phone introductions only. You can set this preference in your account settings.
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Replacements: If your match cancels, a replacement will be provided. If you cancel, no replacement is offered.
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Private Locations: For safety reasons, private meeting spots are not permitted.
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With Insta-Date, Gayquation makes meeting your match easy, safe, and enjoyable!
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Also, view our Help/FAQ page and Trust & Safety page here.